The relationship spread is for questions about 'two people' — love and compatibility. It separates your feelings, their feelings, the energy between you, the obstacles, and advice, giving a more dimensional read than a three-card spread.
When to use it
Great for love, reconciliation, compatibility and crushes — whenever you want to look at a relationship in depth.
Position meanings
- YouYour feelings and attitude in this relationship.
- ThemWhat the other person feels and how they're showing up.
- The relationship nowThe energy flowing between you right now.
- ObstacleWhat makes the relationship difficult — the challenge to work through.
- Advice / directionThe attitude the bond needs and where it's heading.
How to read it
Compare the 'You' and 'Them' cards to see the difference in emotional temperature, then connect 'Obstacle' and 'Advice' to see what to change.